BHOE MUSIC: It's Our Birth Day!

- June Roca

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LYRICS

Let us sing

for we are here 

sharing this one life

the moment we open our eyes

we are celebrating the re-birth

of life on earth

it's our birth day

for we are who we are

we are here to embrace each other

we can see the sun shine

giving warmth to our face

experiencing the air

as it brush against our hair

experiencing the water

that touches our skin

in the atmosphere

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BIRTHING: Music Lyrics

Lyrics:

I am birthing myself here

I am hu-man
made of the same
flesh and bone

I am birthing myself here
my feet on the planet
walking on the same grass
that is underneath your feet

I am birthing myself 
as a part of the whole
as life on earth

everywhere i can see
the quality of life that is necessary
to birth life on earth

Look beyond
the color
of the skin

bones, muscles
veins, and arteries
cells that work
for the body to function

I am hu-man
made of the same
flesh and bone
equal to the body

I am birthing myself 
as part of the whole 
as life on earth

Born with a unique
DNA

seemingly different
in shape and form

breathing the same air
breathed by all
our cells communicating
in unison

life is here
listen to the roar 
of the ocean
the beating of the heart

the same breath
permeating the substance
where the rhythm of all
becomes the stance

singing the same origin
we all came from-

The body is an organism
let it sing
and create art

for in the heart of water
all our words resonate
synchronized orchestra
that has the same message

I am birthing myself 
as a part of the whole
as life on earth

the same substance
communicating the birthing
of life on earth

as the body sing and dance
it celebrates
the birthing of life on earth

7 Days Without Group Support Investigation Day 7 Realization

Realization:

I can assist myself and all as myself

 in or out of a Group.

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I am the breath here.

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Let's see how this unfolds in the physical. 

I will blog and sing about the different changes that i can see within Birthing Heaven On Earth - through fashion, education, food etc. 

I will then look at other blogs and songs etc. and see how they echo what i stand stand as....

Bridging Heaven on Earth Song Lyrics

Heaven is not about a place

Out there somewhere to go

Nor is it about getting information

that will give me the access

to the unknown

for in life it is not about belief, ideas 

information or magic given by another 

that matter

it is me here as the substance of matter

birthing what is best for all

The answer is not going to heaven

for we will all dream about the future

forgetting the moment that is here

Let it be  here on earth

Enjoyed by many

Build with our hands

And sweat as we go

There are a lot of things to do

Stand up and move

Let's make it happen

so that we will know

it is not something we dream

it is something we birth

in the physical

Let us use commonsense

and build this place

ready for the best life possible

Let us not diminish

Our ability to perform

The task that is best for all

Commonsense dictates

Food is needed by all

so give everyone the money

to get the food the body needs

A home where we can sleep

and a warm blanket on our bed

Let us gift ourselves the gift of Life

Let's add to that

clean water to bath and cook

electricity to see clearly when at night

we need to fix some food

clothes to keep our body warm when its cold

and sleeveless clothes for summer too

we need money

notes or digital currency will do

The most important thing 
Is we are all able to

Get the basic necessities

That ensures a dignified life 
For all in this world

For at the end of the day

We know that

We can birth life on earth

Stand up and say,  'helooooo!'

Let's  bridge heaven on earth

And sing the song

For we are here

As life is here

We all need 

To create and express

Who we really are

And embrace life

One and equal as all
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Bridging Heaven On Earth

Birth Control Pills, Health, Jokes, and Pregnancy In The Community

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In this blog, I want to explore the birth control pill and its role in women's lives referencing my experience when I was growing up.

The women in our community visited the municipal health office when they have a problem with health care issues. When they get sick or any of their family members get sick, they get free medicine from the health office.  Sometimes, the supply was limited so the women were unable to be treated. They do not have any health care coverage insurance or anything like that since they were not employed. It's worth mentioning here that even those employed did not have it.

Most of them also visited the health care center to get some birth control pills. My mom was a municipal health employee and I came with her sometimes to visit her office. She gave these women some birth control pills to keep them from getting pregnant. Most of the pills being distributed at that time came from the government. Most of them contained estrogen, the female hormone. Sometimes she gave them IUD (Intra Uterine Device) and with the help of her uncle who was the municipal health doctor, they tried to advice the women to plan the number of children they want to have.

When I got married, I also found myself searching for birth control pills after 3 kids. I accepted the 'pill culture ' without questioning the role of the pill or the chemicals in it like estrogen being introduced in my body which can affect my overall health.  I only became aware of my irresponsibility while talking to someone recently who wanted to take estrogen to soften ones skin. I pointed out that the body will be affected by this and as I was saying these words, I remembered myself using the birth control pill that has estrogen in it when I was having unplanned pregnancies. Like him, I too did not look at how it will affect my body's overall functioning. I was humbled by the realization and forgave myself.

The role of birth control pills in our community was only to prevent pregnancy so that men and women can partake in sexual pleasure - that could potentially stop boredom and anguish in an uncertain world. They hoped this will stop them (rich or poor) from being lonely or 'feeling alone' in a relationship. The pill will also release the 'burden' of taking responsibility for financially supporting kids after birth. This was accepted as if this was the 'solution'. It was as if sex had no other purpose other than to satisfy a desire for pleasure.

Sex as physical interaction of 2 bodies without desire for pleasure but is being used to support the physical body - was unheard of.

In the absence of money, tv, movies, etc., what do you do at night when there's no electricity, to entertain yourself?
Have sex and make babies.

Is that logic or fuzzy logic?

That is fuzzy logic, yet it was accepted and allowed in the form of jokes. In this small town where I grew up, no one dared to ask. It just became a part of our community jokes. I heard many people including my mom and grandmother say this joke over and over again. I ended up saying it and everyone in my family started saying it. So, I interpreted this as if it was okay to make jokes out of problems and just laugh it off rather than provide an effective solution that will benefit everyone in the community. There were no factual answers given nor was there a resolution to end the problem. The easiest way for them to solve the problem is for them to give birth control pills to the women in the community.

But if we look at the common sense behind it, we can pinpoint the problem and educate the women about the role of sex, how many children one can plan to have in a family that will be mutually beneficial for the family and community. Developing businesses which can assist women and men in the community to get income so they can support the family can also help. But what can really help is a basic income guarantee that will provide monthly income - as unconditional guaranteed support for everyone including children who will be born in this world from birth to death that is currently being looked at in other European countries like Sweden and Norway.

Births, Families, Work, and Social Responsibility

It'smy son's birthday today. I would like to look at how I saw him when I gave birth to him.

He had an emergency condition when I gave birth to him which the doctors said were minor. He was operated on after I gave birth to him at the same hospital. I got out of the hospital earlier and when he was okay he was also released from the hospital.

He is an adult now. He has his own life and job. But we live far from each other. He is working in the Philippines while I am here in the US. I went back to the Philippines in 2002 to stay there for good but I did not see a lucrative business I can do there. Before my savings ran out, I decided to come back to the US.

I can see that families can have more flexibility to decide where to live or work if we are all being given equal amount of money from birth to death. We can also have option to work for more money if we like to do other things we set out to do for entertainment purposes.

Our lives will be different if we are being given money monthly for just coming to this world. 

Why not?

It is our birthright. 

We have forgotten that being born into this world means we have equal rights to the resources given by the earth. 

Being given guaranteed survival as part of everyone's social responsibility to guaranteeing the survival of all beings birthed in this world is indeed going to change our social eco-system of money.

How would life change? 

Let's imagine using commonsense for a moment,

The way kids will see their parents will change. Their survival will not depend on whether the parents will have money or not. That means they will have access to food, shelter and clothing because the society will provide for that. 

Parents will see their kids in a new way. They will see them as beings who have a right to live, a right to be educated and an equal right to resources given by the earth.

Our decision will also change about where we will work and what kind of work we will do. Work will be about doing that which one enjoy doing rather than something we have to do to survive.

People will not migrate to earn money to survive. Migration will be a self-directed decision rather than something one needs to do 'to survive'.  

Since everyone has the ability to get the basic necessities to survive, the work we will choose to do  will be those that is not very stressful for the body because it is not about working to survive where we take whatever job is available because we have to - so the body will also benefit.

To conclude, I would like to encourage everyone to look at how it is to 'get out of the box' (of self-imposed limitations) we created - where we imprisoned ourselves in. 

We have to look at 'where the door is' that leads to the outside of the box where we can create a world that truly honors life

Expanding The Word 'Birthday'

MY MESSAGE

http://budsoflife.org

According to the Word Web:

Birth is:
Event of being born

Day is:
A day assigned to a particular purpose or observance

Phoenetics
B-e 'I' as ea-RTH DAY

My Expanded Definition of the word 'Birthday':

The day that I was born as the breath in a body, where i breathe the breath of Life, realizing that i am part of the whole that is Life, and within that, a decision is made to stand for what is best for all life - the eartth, humans, plants, animals etc. 

The decision to assist in providing all a means to live life in dignity, where all can get the basic necessities they need to survive so all can enjoy life is commonsensical.


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In this blog, i am looking at my relationship with birthdays in a 'family setting'

as recently my daughter celebrated her birthday

I am living in the US while she lives in the Philippines

so this is about 

perceiving a location within my mind

as better than another  location

within 'blame'

Thought Dimension

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself 

to participate in the design of/as
 'fear of surviving - as space and time'

to think, 'I am not there to celebrate the birthday of my kids'

where within this thought i activate an entire character/personality

blaming the physical 

for creating one location
 the Philippine soil

as better than another
 the US soil

justifying that by saying
 ' i have to be a mom to my kids, i have to be there during their birthdays'

desiring to be present in my children's birthday events

not realizing that 

who i have become

is trapped within  time and space

not realizing that i am HERE as breath

in every moment

as all my kids and grand kids 

are HERE as breath in every moment
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I commit myself to when and as i see myself 

blaming the physical 

for creating space and time
and me specializing one location over another

i stop

i breathe

i realize i am responsible for what i accept and allow in my world

existing as the mind

within fear of survival
 fearing my date of death

desiring life 

desiring birth days

fearing the day i will die

So i assist myself to accept and allow myself to see 
through the physical mind's eyes
without being deluded by what my mind's eyes see
as i time travel in different compartments within my mind
to see what is here
 as the soil in the Philippines
is made from the same substance 
the soil in the USA is made of

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Imagination Dimension

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself 'as blame'

to imagine how difficult it is to be far away from my kids and grand kids

imagining a sad me within my mind

crying with tears in my eyes
then suppressing it
believing crying is a weakness

blaming the physical for creating tears

and within that put a picture within that thought

like a movie within my mind
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I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself
'as blame'

to blame the physical existence for

creating separation through distance, location etc.

not realizing it is me as the mind

as energy

within fear of death

within fear of survival

imagining 
 a 'mom having a relationship to her kids'
within/as my mind 

imagining

an individual in a relationship with another individual

perceived separate from oneself

thinking that my kids and grand kids are

 separate from me

not realizing that

all individuals in the family including me are all birthed here - all eating from the earth, all breathing the same air, all under the same sun 

where all bodies/physicals/substance

are equal to 
the body/physical/substance of the Philippine soil - as matter

where all  bodies/physicals/substance 
are equal to 
the body/physical/substance of the US soil - as matter

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I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself 

'as blame'

to give one location in space

'as the soil in the Philippines'

 a value 

 'more than' Life

within/as my mind

where
Philippine soil = +10

and to give another location in space

'as the US soil'

a value

'less than' Life

within/as my mind

where
US soil = -10

thinking of me being separate from the soil

thinking of me being separate from my kids

thinking of me being separate from my grand kids

not seeing the real value 
or essential value of all that is here

where

Philippine soil = Life

 US soil = Life

Human body/physical/substance = Life

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Backchat Dimension

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself 'as blame'

to have a backchat/internal conversation

' My mom left me with my grandmother when we were young,

to study. It was sad, and i know this is sad for my kids too, but what can i do, i have to survive'

where within this i am using words 

within my mind

separate from me 

blaming my mom for leaving to study

which is essentially

blaming the physical/substance for creating separation
through creating time and space

not realizing it is me as the mind existing as energy

as who i have become 
trapped in time as the past, present and future
time travelling in different compartments in my mind 
as i think of the past, imagine, react etc.

fearing death 

fearing survival as an individual
 that has to be supported by my parents

fearing survival as an individual 
supporting my kids

so i am stopping time travelling in the past 
living the future in the present
within my mind
and birth me 
as
 who i really am

not defined by time and space

moving me as who i am as breath HERE 

referencing the moment

in this physical existence

and referencing HERE 
as the location
as 'where i am' 
 as 'where all are'
within/as myself
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Reaction Dimension

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself 

'as blame' 
to react with sadness

when my kids and grand kids have birthday

and me not being present all these years

in celebrating those 

existing within fear of sadness

doubting myself when i am sad 

blaming  the physical for making me sad

having the excuse that i have to survive and be happy

as mom to my kids and grand kids

justifying that by saying 'i want to be whole - having a family of my own'

within self-interest desiring to survive as an individual

desiring to survive as the mother of my kids 

and grand mother to my grand kids 

believing that i have to survive in a family unit

to ensure my survival within an idea of a 'happy family'
an idea that i made up within/as my mind

not realizing it is me

as the mind fearing being sad

doubting myself

blaming the physical 

making an excuse and justifying my existence as energy

so it is me stopping  my fears
it is me stopping blame

it is me that is taking self-responsibility

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Behavior Dimension

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself 

'as blame' to use the mind to manipulate the body 

to justify my desire to exist and survive

as a family 

as my stomach tightening 
having anxiety

 having a fast heartbeat

then suppressing these reactions

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself
'as suppression'

to suppress my tears from falling on my cheeks
so i will not be sad - not shed tears

 as i fear being sad 
and showing sadness

essentially blaming the physical/body for creating tears

having the excuse that i have to show strength
and not weakness 

by crying

judging those who cry as weak

not realizing it is me as the mind 

as the evil me

existing within fear, suppressing that 
and blaming the physical

abdicating taking self-responsibility

perceiving me separate from all

within me as the mind 

 and my interpretation of what is here

within knowledge and information separate from me 
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Consequence Dimension


I have seen, realized and understand what the consequence of
giving a value more than life to a day and giving other days  a value less than life
so i will introspect it and investigate it and make it a blueprint for self-change to get to know how it is i get to who i am, what i am and where i am
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Commitment to Correction

I commit myself to when and as i see myself 

blaming the physical for who i have become 

as the mind

I stop 

I breathe

I realize i am the creator and the created

creating my fears etc.

in 'my within' as the mind 

creating this unequal world system

as 'my without'

so i am assisting myself to take self-responsibility

to/as all parts of me as life