The 'I Am Poor' Mind Pattern: Voiceless Part 2

Youtube Link

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_zsDHl4nf4

Mind Pattern

>I am powerless without money 

>I do not have a voice 

>Please pity me 

>give me alms or charity in cash or in kind

The fact is, without money we cannot have the basic necessities to survive. 

Here, I am looking at a belief that If I do not have money, I do not have a voice, therefore powerless.

Here, there is a desire to be pitied and to receive alms or charity.

Wanting to be pitied and accepting less than what we are worth, like alms or charity is not good enough. We are all parts of this one life so we have equal rights to the resources given to us equally by the earth - we have to speak up and rewrite this mind pattern and create a world that guarantees survival for all.

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I will rewrite this pattern by using self-forgiveness, redefining words and writing a self-correction script - using a commitment statement to correct myself in every moment - when I see myself getting into this pattern.

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What is Self-forgiveness? 

It is the process by which an individual forgives oneself for accepting and allowing self to separate from objective reality, releasing positive and negative value judgments such as good or bad, right or wrong, positive or negative - as subjective interpretations of reality regarding something or someone that leads to stability as breath. 

Self-forgiveness Statements:

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I do not have a voice and that because I have no money, I am powerless - rather than see, realize and understand that money is distributed unequally - others receive more and others receive less - so it is for me to  assist and support a system where all have the basic necessities to survive - starting with a living income guarantee - supporting equality.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to desire to be pitied believing that that will make others give me a little bit of money so I can survive, instead of seeing and realizing that - I am giving myself a value that is less than life - by being someone who needs charity to survive - rather than giving myself a value equal to life - someone who is part of the whole - that is life, one who has the right to receive equal resources from the earth - and one who has the right to receive an amount of money that guarantees survival from birth to death.

Correction Script

I commit myself to blog and speak about the problems of inequality and the solutions available  -  to pave the way for a society that aligns its expression to the expression of life, where the main principle of life is the basis of its social policy and decisions - 'what is best for all'.

I commit myself to redefine the word 'poor' 

Phoenetics

From

POO-p of the earth, grrr-R

To

P-ossibility and O-pportunity O-ccuring for us to take R-esponsibility

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Redefinition

From 

Deserving or inciting pity

To

Deserving a living income and guaranteed survival from birth to death

The Story of Sonia: Christmas, The Mind Pattern of Giving,The Word Help and Survival

What Is The Living Income Guaranteed (English)?

Ano Ang Living Income Guaranteed? 

Mga Tanong at Kasagutan

In the News:

Pinay who inspired Cannes film now living in poverty

'Auntie Terry' to attend premiere of 'Ilo Ilo' in Singapore

MANILA - The Filipina domestic helper who inspired the Cannes-winning film "Ilo Ilo" is set to attend the premiere of the movie in Singapore on August 29.

Teresita "Auntie Terry" Sajonia was recently visited by Singaporean director Anthony Chen in San Miguel, Iloilo, together with his younger brother, Christopher.

Sajonia took care of Chen and his brothers 16 years ago.

An article published in Singapore's Chinese-language newspaper Lianhe Zaobao reported how Sajonia, 56, is now living in poverty and has been neglected by the relatives she used to help financially when she was still a domestic helper.

http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/lifestyle/08/02/13/pinay-who-inspired-cannes-film-now-living-poverty

The Word Web's definition of the word 'Help' is:

v.

Give help or assistance; be of service

This definition of this word is being used in the Philippine scene:

Most Filipinos give help or assistance to family when one feels guilty that one did not help as much as one could because one did not have the means/money to help when one was barely surviving in the Philippines, so when one gets a good paying job abroad one gives gifts in the form of money, education etc. to ones relatives then has the illusion that one has transcended ones guilt, so feels good about oneself. But when one loses that good paying job and asks for help in turn from the people they have helped in the past, and gets rejected, then they go into regret. They regret having helped that person and blames oneself for helping them in the first place.

Here's the Mind Pattern

>one is Poor and does not have much money to survive let alone give gifts

>one cannot give gifts to relatives

>one feels bad

>one strengthens ones resolve to earn more money

> one becomes wealthy

>one gives gifts to poor relatives and friends

>one feels good 

>one feels 'useful' and 'powerful'

>one loses job and money

>one feels 'useless and powerless'

>one asks help from ones relatives

>no one gives help

>one goes into regret that one helped and blame the persons one helped

>one lives in poverty and hope that we become wealthy and rich one day

>one is given help or one finds another job that pays good money

>one give gifts to family and friends

>one loses ones job again

The pattern repeats itself

During Christmas, this is the pattern that plays out, just a little bit different:. let's have a look:

>Its Christmas

>one buys gifts

>one feels good about giving gifts to relatives and friends

>one feels 'powerful' and 'useful'

>After Christmas, we look at the expenses we incurred in giving gifts

>we realized we overspent

>one saw ones credit card debt is too much

>one decides to repay the credit card company every month

>one loses job

>one feels 'useless and powerless'

>one decides not to pay the credit card debts because one does not have the money to pay

>one realize no one is going to lend one money if one do not have a credit line nor a job

>one regrets spending so much money in gifts

>one works hard in replenishing the money in the dwindling bank account

>Christmas comes again

>one gives gifts again

>one loses ones job again

The pattern repeats itself

The story of the Filipina overseas worker above is our own story of survival which we repeat again and again during Christmas, when we give to charity etc.

In a world that does not honor all life, there's the 'haves' and the 'have-nots'. There's the ones who can afford to give and the ones waiting for gifts, hoping. 

This is what happens in a world where not all is given the chance to live in dignity where NOT everyone has enough money to get the basic necessities they need to survive all year long.

The feelings of 'love' usually comes from 'giving help' which turns to feelings of 'uselessness, powerlessness and hopelessness' when one loses ones job or source of income.

That's why we created Santa Claus. That's why we call the ones who help us as 'Santa Claus' . 

So, we have to question our motive when we give gifts or when we give help. The question we want to ask ourselves is:

How can we give a REAL Gift that lasts?

We can live a life where we do not have to wait for Christmas to get gifts.

Expanding The Word 'Help'

To give assistance; where assistance is about the activity of contributing to that which is what life is about, giving ALL a dignified life, hence, be of service to life,realizing we are all parts of life that is birthed here and therefore equals - with equal opportunity to survive. 

Check the links below and see what 'The GIFT of LIFE' is: 

What Is The Living Income Guaranteed (English)?

Ano Ang Living Income Guaranteed? 

Mga Tanong at Kasagutan

Redefining The Word 'Help' Day 119

Life Tools

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Self-forgiveness

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About Writing/Blogging

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Related Blog

http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2012/08/vs-pulling-moms-hair-who-am-i-i-am-i.html

Guide To Redefining Words:

http://juneroca.com/words/redefining-words/

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Redefining The Word 'Help' 

According To the dictionary, help means

to make easier or less difficult

To make easier or less difficult - for oneself or someone - perceived separate from oneself -looking at what's happening in ones world and another's - based on ones definition of oneself within easy and difficult - where one feels the need to make any task 'easier' for someone to feel good about oneself 

Realizing through ones process of self-perfection - one is equal to all that exist - as all are made from the same substance all are made of

Redefines the word 'Help' as - to make it easier - for oneself or another as self - as the flesh/physical - as who one is - doing whatever needs to be done to birth and express oneself as Life - and as one assists oneself - assists others as self - as who one really is -as the breath in every moment - as a living example for/as all.

Seeing the commonsense, 'as within so without' - one assists in establishing a world that truly honors life -based on equality - and bring heaven into as earth - as what is best for all life

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Quotes:

'I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to not realize and embrace the clear certainty that the Beginning was the Word and that the Word was God, implying and stating that i as a creation and Creator of words are in fact The God of Words'

From: Creation's Journey To life Day 5

http://creationsjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2012/04/day-5-in-beginning-was-god.html

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'What is clear about words that are defined within and as self as polarized words, are that they are reactive in nature. Meaning when carrying a negatively or positively charged word within and as self, this polarity charged word will ‘react’ within its environment  seeking out designs of ‘homeostasis’ or ‘winning’.  The consequential outflows of negatively and positively charged words are predetermined in that they follow a specific pre-programmed path.'

'It is thus common sense to realize that, what we place as definitions within and as ourselves is what we manifest within the expression of ourselves. This is why we redefine words; to find the living expression evident in each word from the principle of oneness and equality. As we look at a word we are moving ourselves through the word to see what it represents and what it stands for as a living expression. By assigning a definition to the word we are developing our vocabulary by placing within the definitions, living definitions that stand free from polarity which are able to stand as living expressions of the words that we have redefined.' ~ 

'I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to through the acceptance and allowance of the polarity game experience the positive polarity charge as a winning experience as well as the negative polarity charge as a losing experience within and as myself in the different contexts within which they presented themselves as.'

From Earth's Journey to Life Blog Day 6 

http://earthsjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2012/05/redefining-words-part-3-experience-of.html

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I commit myself to – through writing, self-forgiveness and self-corrective application – assist and support me to purify my words from energy/experience of the negative, neutral and positive, and re-align my words into and as physical practical living; where the words no more exist within and as energy – furthering/evolving the Mind and influencing/affecting others within my world deliberately to evoke/initiate/instigate within them and/or me experiences of and as energy as the competition between the Minds within the weapons of words, used/abused in the interest and survival of and as the Mind of Energy only. But that the words I am exist as Living Substance/Living Flesh as the equal and one living of words visibly within and as me and my world, where the Words I speak stand absolute as who I am in and as my physical equality and oneness. To so also stop the separation existent within the very Words I use, where words I speak out loud – differ from the words I speak silently within; simply indicating the extent to which we exist in separation/two worlds of the Mind and the Physical, where we’re one personality of Mind within ourselves and another in the without of Ourselves.
From Heaven Journey To Life 65

http://heavensjourneytolife.blogspot.com/2012/06/femininity-and-masculinity-day-65.html

'Fear of Being Poor' Desire/Love to Help The Poor': Spirituality 118

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Life Tools

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Self-forgiveness

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About Writing/Blogging

Related Blog:

http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2012/08/vs-pulling-moms-hair-who-am-i-i-am-i.html

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About Writing/Blogging

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What is self-forgiveness?

“Speaking self forgiveness is like – ‘saying sorry to yourself’, but in more deep and intimate way. Saying sorry to yourself for separating yourself from yourself, from not realising that you can actually help yourself, from making your life difficult for yourself, from being hard on yourself, from not helping yourself. And in this self forgiveness as ‘saying sorry to yourself’ you then release yourself / set yourself free from your past so that you can help yourself to create a new future for yourself inside yourself. Through self forgiveness, you let go of the burdens of the past in your mind that is haunting you, and set yourself free to take your power back to change yourself, for yourself.” ~ Sunette Destonian Spies

Self-forgiveness is the act of rebirth and giving self to self through letting the past as self go and creating a new self that can be trusted to always be what is best for all. Bernard Poolman

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Life Tools

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How I Created This World:

The Unconscious Mind – exist within and as all of humanity-  that which connects and interconnects human beings together as one '. If you participate in the mind you participate in everything  that exist in this world.'

'Fear of Being Poor - Desire/Love To Help The Poor'

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Self-forgiveness

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I forgive myself 'as the spiritual organizations desiring to help others' out of pity' that i have accepted and allowed myself to  support this current unequal monetary system by pitying the poor - and because of fear of  being poor - desire to help the poor - where one is perceived separate from oneself - and help is being used to feel good about oneself - believing that one will go to heaven, nirvana or 'will unite to the supreme consciousness' if one helps the poor  - in self-interest  - not realizing one is  using the infrastructures of this current unequal monetary system to give charity to the poor - instead of assisting in establishing a world that truly honors life - where poverty will be no more

I forgive myself 'as the gurus' that i have accepted and allowed myself to desire to help the poor and believe that with limited funds one can  help all - and delude the followers into believing the same - instead of assisting  in establishing a world that truly honors life where all will be given the basic necessities one needs to survive - and poverty will be no more.

I forgive myself 'as members of spiritual groups' that i have accepted and allowed myself to feel good in helping the poor  - because one believes that when one helps the poor one 'is saved/unites with God/supreme consciousness etc.' - not realizing that one does it because of what one believes one get by doing so - desiring to feel happy about oneself - desiring positive energy experiences in ones mind - in self-interest - without assisting in establishing a system that is based on equality 

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Self-commitment

I commit myself to show in my blogs the dishonesty in helping some - rather than assisting all as one as equal to/as oneself.

I commit myself to show that  helping the poor will not end poverty - as  it is supporting the very system that creates poverty - by using transportations, buildings etc. - supporting an unequal monetary system -  which gives rise to the rich and poor.

I commit myself to show that assisting the poor is based on fear of being poor - pitying another perceived separate from oneself - rather than  oneness and equality as all life.