Jealousy In Sales

JEALOUSY IN SALES

In this blog, i am looking at jealousy in a sales team - of which i was a part of in the past, forgiving myself for my mistakes and opening myself for correction

Forgiving Myself

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to get jealous with other sales colleagues  when they sell more and earn more than me - within that is me resentful that they will have more money than me and they can get what they want while i cannot - so its resentment for the result of my comparing them to me - and then judging that person as someone who has more in terms of popularity & earnings/money, so is better than me and within that is me being jealous of this person - resentful that i have less than another 

Commitments

When and as i see myself get jealous with other sales colleagues, when they sell more and earn more than me, i stop - i breathe. i realize this is me comparing myself to the person  and judging myself as either having more or less value than the person - where when i get devalued in my mind i would strive to be better in my mind by criticizing this person or finding their  faults  - going into the past and searching stored data about them which will show me they did a mistake - which will come up in my mind again and again to make sure i win the competition going on in there - which gives me a feeling I have won

I commit myself to see that sales is about exchanging products and/or services for money and as such there is no need for competition

I commit myself to see that my value as a person is equal to the value of the other person 

I commit myself to see that i do not have to compete to win because life is not about winning - it is about re-birthing ourselves here and seeing we are equals - expressing to our optimum potential