Public Speaking: 'I Need to Use Body Movements' Mind Pattern

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'I Need To Use Body Movements' Mind Pattern

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'I Need To Use Body Movements' Mind Pattern

>I need to explain this concept 

>I need to show it using body movements 

>as my visual aids 

Here, there's an idea of how I should present the topic based on information given in the manual and a desire to put body movements as part of the speech to get the audience engaged creating an excuse and a justification for mind manipulation that translate into a behavior .

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I will rewrite this pattern by using self-forgiveness, redefining words and writing a self-correction script (using a commitment statement to correct myself in every moment - when I see myself getting into this pattern.

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What is Self-forgiveness? 

It is the process by which an individual forgives oneself for accepting and allowing self to separate from objective reality, releasing positive and negative value judgments such as good or bad, right or wrong, positive or negative - as subjective interpretations of reality regarding something or someone that leads to stability as breath. 

Self-forgiveness Statements:

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to desire to explain to others my message in my speech using body language believing that I need to add body movements to my speech so it can be really understood as an idea that i got from the speech manual - and using that as an excuse to create body movements that are directed by my fear of being disliked and desire to be liked - to justify what I am doing,

Instead of seeing and realizing that adding body movements that are driven by my fear of not being liked by others is not a solution but a compounding of that very same fear -  causing the body to use movement as stress response - where instead of looking at this pattern driven by fear and rewrite the pattern, I try to run away from it.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to have an idea of how great a speech can be with body movements incorporated into it - which makes me special - so that one day I can be a 'well-known speaker',  magnifying my value through using body movements in my speech so people will like it - which is me creating an alternate version of me in my mind that is larger than life so I will be liked by others - having attached that to earning more money - using a speech for my own selfish interest.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I should use body movements as visual-aids for the purpose of getting my speech to be liked by others  - and to fit into the structure laid out in the manual which is really manipulation, instead of seeing and realizing that body movements as visual aids are used to give my message that is mutually beneficial to all.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that a speech needs to have more visuals to cater to the mind's desire of the audience  instead of realizing that I do not have to entertain the audience but use more visuals for the purpose of giving the speech effectively and imparting a message that benefits all.

I commit myself to give a speech using body language for the purpose of giving an effective speech - one where my message can be clearly understood - the message being aligned to what is best for everyone.

I commit myself to make body movements/language that are not fueled with emotional and feeling energy but rather, self-directed body movements that support my message.

So, I commit myself to support myself to speak about my fears, how I faced them in my speech,  how I changed and what solutions worked - adding body movements that I see are appropriate for the message to be effective which is my own decision based on having walked the journey of giving a speech to many individuals.

I commit myself to redefine the word 'body',

From

BODY

The entire structure of an organism (an animal, plant, or human being)

(BO-om box of D-rty laundr-Y)

To

BODY

The entire structure of an organism (an animal, plant, or human being, etc.) that  works for what is best for all

(BO-ardroom Decides Y-es for what is mutually beneficial for all)

I commit myself to redefine the word 'movements'

From

MOVEMENTS

A change of position that does or does not entail a change of location 

(MOVE- ME i-NT-o S-atisfaction) 

To

MOVEMENTS

A change of position directed by oneself that does or does not entail change of location that leads to what is mutually beneficial for all.

(MOVE ME-a-NT for/as S-elf)

I commit myself to redefine the word 'speech'

From

SPEECH

The act of delivering a formal spoken communication to an audience

(SPE-ak with E-nergy and CH-ange others)

To

SPEECH

The act of delivering a spoken communication  on topics such as self-change, world change, or solutions etc. that will be mutually beneficial to an audience

(SPE-ak and E-xpress your own CH-ange)

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2012 Body Blog: Redefining Body Language Part 1 Day 22

Body Language

What is body language?

Wikipedia defines body language as:

Body language is a form of mental and physical ability of human non-verbal communication, which consists of body posture, gestures, facial expressions, and eye movements. Humans send and interpret such signals almost entirely subconsciously.

Redefining Body Language:

Body language (B-ad y-ou L-anguage Gauge)  is a form of human non-verbal communication, which consist of body posture, gestures, facial expressions and eye movements - where body movements are used to express what is on our mind - where the body is used to express an idea, judgment, belief etc. - as we identify as the personality separate from all life - and seeing that this is not what is best for all - because the body is being mined for energy by the mind - use body movements to be, do and express what is best for all life  - as the body and its movements  - which is the way it expresses itself here  - is equal to all that exist - as it is made from the same substance all are made of.

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Yesterday while driving i was eager to listen to a newly bought eqafe product, Anu's interview - about how he created this world and all the details of that and sharing his process - which i have always enjoyed listening to, and was surprised that my partner bought it already - i saw my hand tap his thigh.

This is me telling him through body movement/body language that i did not like him delaying telling me 'important' things he has done - rather, i want him to tell me what he bought from eqafe the moment he buys it - possibly when he's still in the eqafe site purchasing it - so i can listen to it . So, this gesture of my hand tapping his thigh is a way to make him wrong - where i judge him as less than me - and me more than him - which in essence is me judging me - as i am equal to all that is here. 

I want to direct this here using self-forgiveness and self correction for using body movements which is real - and connect it to judgment which is not real - since i created this in my mind.

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Self-forgiveness Statements:

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from body movements - specifically putting the palm of my hand on LP's thigh.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect body movements to judgment - where i made LP wrong (by tapping his thigh) - thus, making him less than myself and me more than myself  (as i judge me as right) 

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to touch his thigh to make that judgment (which i created in my mind - therefore not real), REAL. 

Self-forgiveness for separation from the word body language and connecting it to other words:

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the words body language

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I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word body movements to the word flirting

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the words body language to the word sex

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the words body language to the word mind

i forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect body movements to the word personality

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect body movements to the word ego

i forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect body language to the word success

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the words body language to the word failure

I forgve myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the words body language to the word dating

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the words body language to the word good

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the words body language to the word bad

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the words body language to the word right

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the words body language to the word wrong

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the words body language to the word habits

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the words body language to the word positive

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the words body language to the word negative

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I forgve myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word flirting

i forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word sex

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word mind

i forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word  personality

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word ego

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word success

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word failure

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word dating

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word good

i forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word bad

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word right

i forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word wrong

i forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word habits

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word positive

i forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the words body language within the word negative