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Tuesday, August 12, 2014

The Persona As The Mind: Is It REAL? 21 Day Investigation On Words and Behavior: Hey Day 2


June's Blog About The Word 'Hey'

Words: 
'Hey'
'Real'

1.
Someone who's a stranger calling me 'hey'

Thought:
Don't Call me 'hey', call me by my name,  June
Picture: A Stranger calling me

Mind Pattern
>don't call me 'hey', call me by my name,  June
>why is he calling me hey?
>I got to tell him to call me by my name
>but that's a tic

Behavior:
Turn my head my eyes looking at the person where the sound came from
Saying 'Don't call me 'hey', my name is June.

What's the fear?
Fear of family members not calling me by my name

This fear is not being looked at. The persona that I believe is me, is running away from this fear because in its estimation, if this is repeated in a family environment, I will lose the validation

Within this mind pattern, there is the idea that if he calls me by my name, we are more intimately connected compared to those who call each other 'hey'. So, there is comparison here too. There is also a belief that people who call each other 'hey' are strangers to each other.

There is a need to influence his way of calling me 'hey' to him calling me by my name which is a way of'
manipulation really to suit what is best for me - so I can stay within my mind and think about this idea and manipulate my way out of it. So then, I realized it's a tic which the mind sees as a habitual 'voice tic'
that the mind defined as some form of speech disorder which the mind believed is not really from the person but which arose from an unconscious voicing of something - so because there was a belief that it was not L as who I knew him to be, that was saying 'hey' I stopped reacting, which is still a belief because it could have been a word

The body is being manipulated to animate what I believed in my mind, my idea of what a name is, my belief of what the word 'hey' mean, and because the persona within my mind that i believed is me is not going to win in all this, it wants to manipulate the situation so it can win - so the persona who I believed is me, uses the body to animate this desire to win by turning my head with eyes looking at the person where the sound came from and saying, 'don't call me 'hey', my name is June'

I animate the illusion within my mind to make it look as if it is REAL

Is this what we can really call REAL?

The Word Web Definition of the word 'REAL'
Being or occurring in fact or actuality; having verified existence; not illusory

Expanding the Definition of the Word 'REAL'

Being or occurring in fact or in actuality - as someone/something standing for what is best for all; having verified existence; not illusory in a way that one's standing for what is best for all can be proven and are aligned to what is best for all life - humans, animals, plants ..

Benefitting the Whole:

Being or occurring in fact - has to be aligned to what is best for all, realizing that what  is best for all is also what is best for me or the individual

Benefitting the Individual: 
Being or occurring in fact - within what is best for the individual only, is self-interest and will not benefit the whole

We are parts of the whole - that is Life

The next time someone said 'hey', and you looked at the direction of the person saying 'hey' with your eyes and said,  'my name is '___', or there's a reaction within you, investigate if it is the persona that you think you really are, that said it or that persona behaved it or that persona reacted to it. If it is so, forgive and correct oneself. Let's be REAL, self-realization is really about that!

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Links


Leon's Blog About the Word 'Hey'
Day 1

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