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Monday, April 4, 2016

Eating When Hungry for Affection Etc.


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Eating To Say 'Thank You Mom'
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Eating food is being used for so many reasons, aside for the reason it was intended to be used - to nourish the body.

This blog is me saying 'I am sorry to myself' for using 'eating' other than what it is used for.  So below, I am going to forgive myself.

My Self-forgiveness Statements:

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat when I am hungry for affection.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat when I am hungry for attention.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat when I am stressed.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat when I do not know the solution to my problem.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat when I am excited.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat when I am sad.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat when I am happy.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat because it is a habit that I formed.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat because I am alone.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat when I am nervous.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat when I am bored. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to eat when I am uncertain of whether to do or not to do something.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to 
eat when I want to have a break from working in the internet.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to go to the kitchen and open the door of the refrigerator even when the body does not need nourishment - but as a habit.


Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Coping With What We Have Vs Birthing A World That Equally Benefits All


I saw this posted by one of my friends in Facebook:
An anthropologist thought he would test these African children. He placed a bowl of fruit underneath a tree and told them that the first one to reach the tree could have the fruit. When he told the children to run, they all took each others' hands and ran together. They all enjoyed the fruit together. This is the African concept of Ubuntu...

When asked why they didn't run the course alone, they answered, UBUNTU! How can we be happy when others are sad?

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I will share with you my mind pattern that is parallel to this:

Mind Pattern:
>I am one of the underprivileged
>we come from a third world country 
>we have to share whatever we have to the underprivileged like us 
>we have to sympathize with each other 
>we cannot be happy when others are sad? 

Here, there is self-judgment and a projection of ones judgments, beliefs and ideas unto others to give pity and help a little bit as a way of coping, hoping that this will change the situation or solve the problem. This justifies the value judgments we pass onto each other and the pity and help that is done from a starting point of coping instead of realizing that we have done this before many times and that this is not changing our world.

We have charity organizations that is always helping others by giving them a little bit of help but this is not done long term and not done from a starting point of one walking with another as an equal where we give all the basic necessities to survive.

In a world set up this way, the kids will be expressing themselves in ways we have never imagined. Equality will be expressed through individual self-expression that outflows to the community.

So, instead of coping in this present system, I would help make a world instead who gives everyone equal share from the produce of the earth where corporations are given the privilege of giving part of its earnings from raw materials like water, electricity etc.as a guaranteed living income for other 'under- privileged' so that this way, we can redefine the word privilege in terms of benefits enjoyed by all and NOT benefits enjoyed by only a few.

Word Web
The Word 'Privilege' means:
A special advantage, immunity or benefit not enjoyed by all

Expanding The Word 'Privilege'
advantage or benefit enjoyed by all 


Sunday, July 21, 2013

The Word 'Poverty' Day 324 Connected To The Word 'Money'


Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race

The Word 'Self'                                         

Topic: 

Releasing the energy charge and equalizing myself with the word 'self'
as who i am in relation to the symbols that are the building blocks of words
words that are the building blocks of sentences
which i use to express myself here
as i birth myself as Life

What is self-forgiveness?

Self-forgiveness:
- See more at: http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2013_06_01_archive.html#sthash.h3rL76UR.dpuf
Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race

The Word 'Self'                                         

Topic: 

Releasing the energy charge and equalizing myself with the word 'self'
as who i am in relation to the symbols that are the building blocks of words
words that are the building blocks of sentences
which i use to express myself here
as i birth myself as Life

What is self-forgiveness?

Self-forgiveness:
- See more at: http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2013_06_01_archive.html#sthash.h3rL76UR.dpuf
Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race

The Word 'Self'                                         

Topic: 

Releasing the energy charge and equalizing myself with the word 'self'
as who i am in relation to the symbols that are the building blocks of words
words that are the building blocks of sentences
which i use to express myself here
as i birth myself as Life

What is self-forgiveness?

Self-forgiveness:
- See more at: http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2013_06_01_archive.html#sthash.h3rL76UR.dpuf
Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race

The Word 'Self'                                         

Topic: 

Releasing the energy charge and equalizing myself with the word 'self'
as who i am in relation to the symbols that are the building blocks of words
words that are the building blocks of sentences
which i use to express myself here
as i birth myself as Life

What is self-forgiveness?

Self-forgiveness:
- See more at: http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2013_06_01_archive.html#sthash.h3rL76UR.dpuf
Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race

The Word 'Self'                                         

Topic: 

Releasing the energy charge and equalizing myself with the word 'self'
as who i am in relation to the symbols that are the building blocks of words
words that are the building blocks of sentences
which i use to express myself here
as i birth myself as Life

What is self-forgiveness?

Self-forgiveness:
- See more at: http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2013_06_01_archive.html#sthash.h3rL76UR.dpuf
Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race

The Word 'Self'                                         

Topic: 

Releasing the energy charge and equalizing myself with the word 'self'
as who i am in relation to the symbols that are the building blocks of words
words that are the building blocks of sentences
which i use to express myself here
as i birth myself as Life

What is self-forgiveness?

Self-forgiveness:
- See more at: http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2013_06_01_archive.html#sthash.h3rL76UR.dpuf
Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race

The Word 'Self'                                         

Topic: 

Releasing the energy charge and equalizing myself with the word 'self'
as who i am in relation to the symbols that are the building blocks of words
words that are the building blocks of sentences
which i use to express myself here
as i birth myself as Life

What is self-forgiveness?

Self-forgiveness:
- See more at: http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2013_06_01_archive.html#sthash.h3rL76UR.dpuf
Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race

The Word 'Self'                                         

Topic: 

Releasing the energy charge and equalizing myself with the word 'self'
as who i am in relation to the symbols that are the building blocks of words
words that are the building blocks of sentences
which i use to express myself here
as i birth myself as Life

What is self-forgiveness?

Self-forgiveness:
- See more at: http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2013_06_01_archive.html#sthash.h3rL76UR.dpuf
Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race

The Word 'Self'                                         

Topic: 

Releasing the energy charge and equalizing myself with the word 'self'
as who i am in relation to the symbols that are the building blocks of words
words that are the building blocks of sentences
which i use to express myself here
as i birth myself as Life

What is self-forgiveness?

Self-forgiveness:
- See more at: http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2013_06_01_archive.html#sthash.h3rL76UR.dpuf


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Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race

The Word 'Poverty'

Topic: 
Releasing the energy charge and equalizing myself with the word 'poverty'
as who i am in relation to the symbols that are the building blocks of words
words that are the building blocks of sentences
which i use to express myself here
as i birth myself as Life

What is self-forgiveness?

Self-forgiveness:

Separating From The Word 'Poverty' Through Giving It A Positive and A Negative Value
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word poverty through giving it a positive value
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word poverty through giving it a negative value

Charging The Word With A positive and A Negative Value
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to charge the word poverty with a positive value
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to charge the word poverty with a negative value

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word relax
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word relax

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word nature
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word nature

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word breath
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word breath

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word  peace
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word peace

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word suffering
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word suffering

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word pain
I forgive myself that i h ave accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word pain

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word lack
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word lack

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word sickness
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word sickness

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word money
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word money

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word death
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word death

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word sadness
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word sadness

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word rice
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word rice

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word salt
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word salt  

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word 'tuyo'
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word 'tuyo'

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word poverty to the word corn
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to define the word poverty within the word corn
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I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to resonate the word 'poverty' over and over again into the very physical rippling through into the water of the physical itself
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Commitment To Correction:

I commit myself to make sure i am clear within myself before speaking or writing the word 'poverty'

I commit myself to redefine the word poverty and live the redefined meaning of the word equal to my expression as who i really am - equal to all that is birthed here.


Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Inferiority, Myself and This World System Day 303



   
Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race


This is a Continuation of This Blog

The Word 'Inferiority'
http://junejourneytolife.blogspot.com/2013/06/the-word-inferiority-day-302-connected.html

What is self-forgiveness?
http://juneroca.com/home/my-process/self-forgiveness/

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Self-forgiveness Statements 

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to participate in the design of
'fear of survival - as energy'

fear that i will be inferior -suffer, experience pain, suffering, sadness etc.
believing if i do not have money, eternal life, long lasting relationships etc.
I will suffer/be sad
desiring to be superior - for comfort, happiness etc.
believing that if i have money, eternal life, long lasting relationships etc.
I will be happy

instead of realizing i am here as breath moving me as part of this one life

Through this,
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to
doubt who i am
uncertain of who i have become
the one that is experiencing pain/discomfort/sadness
or the one experiencing comfort and happiness

instead of realizing this is me as the mind
desiring  to win
fearing to lose
within polarity
as friction and conflict

Through this,
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to
blame the physical for creating competition
and for feeling inferior
when i lose

instead of realizing it is me as the mind
competing to win 
fearing to lose
within conflict and friction

so it is not about blame
it is me taking self-responsibility
for stopping participation in competition

through this i forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to
have the excuse that i have to survive
and win
so i can be the best, so i can be superior to others
so i can be happy

instead of realizing 
this is me as 'as my within' - as the mind 
wanting to survive

instead of realizing this is me as 'my without'
impulsing me within an unequal monetary system
to continue to compete to win

believing that 
i have to compete to survive
within self-interest

believing that 
that is what Life is all about
Instead of realizing 
Life is standing for what is best for all 

creating my within' as the mind
and 'my without' as this world system
trapped in my own creation

instead of realizing
i can stop my creation in 'my within'
as the mind
and my creation in 'my without'
as this world system

to through writing, self-forgiviness 
and self-correction in my living
birth me here as who i really am
one who will always stand for what is best for all
as Life

Through this,
I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to
justify my excuse that i have to survive as the best
as superior
as the one having eternal life
as the one having lasting relationships
believing that this is the way to be whole
in a world of inequality

instead of seeing and realizing that this is balance in polarity
within winning and losing

Realizing that real wholeness does not need separation from the source

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Commitment to Correction Script

I commit myself to face my fear of being inferior
walk back and see that i connected this to a memory
of when my mother's hair was being pulled by someone
pitying her
yet unable to help her
at a young age
abdicating my responsibility to say 'stop'
guilty of what i did
feeling inferior
as a child
unable to help her

and seeing all the poor people in a third world country
suffering without food, shelter and medical attention

suppressing the feeling of pity
that i felt for these people
guilty that i am unable to do anything
to have a world of equality
where all will be given equal access to the basic necessities of life
believing i am just a child, helpless
feeling inferior

creating me in 'my within' as the mind
and 'my without' as the world system

I assist myself to breath through the fear of inferiority
and desire to be superior

I assist in establishing an equal money system
so i will not be impulsed continously
by an unequal monetary system
to compete to win

I commit myself to when and as i see myself doubting who i am
split in my awareness
within conflict and friction
I stop
i breathe
i realized this is me as the mind
believing i was not able to help
when help is needed by my mom

i forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to feel guilty
that i was unable to help my mom
seeing her hair being pulled by someone

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to  feel guilty
that i was unable to create a world based on equality where
people compete with one another
rather than give another what one wants for oneself


I commit myself to instead of feeling guilty
stabilize myself as breath here
taking self-responsibility
where i can say 'stop'
when and as i see someone taking advantage of someone

to through writing, self-forgiveness and self-correction
applying myself in my living
birth myself here as who i really am, what i am and how i am

I commit myself to take self-responsibility for all parts of me as life
and see how i created 'my without' as this world system
walk back and forgive, correct and apply myself in my living
assisting in establishing a world that truly honors life

I commit myself to when and as i see myself blaming the physical for creating competition
I stop - I breathe
realize that it is me that is taking self-responsibility for all parts of me as life
as the physical/nature is already giving all equally
the bounty/produce of the earth
taking self responsibility for/as All Life

I commit myself to when and as i see myself having an excuse
that i have to survive as the one that wins, the one that is the best, the one that is superior
in a world of competition

I stop and breathe

I assist myself to create a world that is based on equality
where all are being given equal access to the basic necessities of life

I commit myself to when and as i see myself justifying my excuse to be whole
I stop - i breathe
realize that it is balance in polarity and not real wholeness

Real wholeness does not need separation from the source

Monday, March 4, 2013

Redefining The Word 'Sadness' 248



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Parenting:Perfecting The Human Race
 Words

Dictionary Definitions: 
sad  [sad]  Show IPA
adjective, sad·der, sad·dest.
1.
affected by unhappiness or grief; sorrowful or mournful: to feel sad because a close friend has moved away.
2.
expressive of or characterized by sorrow: sad looks; a sad song.
3.
causing sorrow: a sad disappointment; sad news.
4.
(of color) somber, dark, or dull; drab.
5.
deplorably bad; sorry: a sad attempt.


The Word 'Sadness'' Sounds Like:
SAD- Nest


The letters within the word 'sadness' :
S-elf A-bdicating self- responsibility D-esiring positive energy fearing  N-egative E-nergy experience
S-plitting S-el'f awareness  of oneself, relating to who one is, as energy.

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Redefining 'Sadness'
Standing equal to consequence, takes responsibility to care for all parts of oneself as life - stands equal to/as the word  relating ones expression to practical living .

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The definition of 'sadness' meaning sorrow, unhappiness or grief etc.  comes from the character/ego/personality as who we have become as the mind .

I am redefining the word 'sadness' and giving it a meaning equal to who i am - equal to all that exist - one that i can live as an expression of myself  as who we are as life.


Stopping our participation in energy and redefining words, releasing the charge and the positive and negative values we give words, we then apply it to practical living. 

We can see the consequence of what we accepted and allowed as the mind that is physically here. Seeing this, we stop being sad, we realize   we have to take self-responsibility. We decide to recreate ourselves.

As we created ourselves through words - defining ourselves into existence, we recreate ourselves through words -  to through writing, self- forgiveness and correcting ourselves in our real living participation we recreate, rewrite and rescript ourselves to stopping sentences in the book  we have written within ourselves.

We stop  feelings and emotions and relate to real living participation. 

When we 'feel' for the poor - 'unhappy' that they have no way of getting the basic necessities they need to survive, wee give them alms or we support charities to try to correct  the system - not realizing that charities use the infrastructure of the system like electricity, transportation etc. which supports the system and realizing that even if we donate to charity we will still have a system that is supporting inequality and  not providing for all equally.

We can stop thinking in terms of just doing a little bit so we can make a difference.


We can assist in establishing a world that provides for everyone equally making the vhange real instead of 'hoping' and 'making a difference' through charity.

Who we are is all life. Let's stand as that within/as ourselves and create a world that truly honors life - living as equals, as that one body of/as life. This is not easy but doable.


We all come from dust and to dust our bodies will return. This is the point of physical equality. 


 Realizing that we live this one life and that we have a chance to create heaven on earth by living as equals in a world that provides for all.

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