2012 Redefining The Word Mother Part 1A Day 13

MOTHER

Yesterday i received a message from my daughter who is a mother herself.. This message talked about being a mother. This blog is about the word mother. 

Wikipedia defines a mother as:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mother

A mother (or mum/mom) is a woman who has raised a child, given birth to a child, and/or supplied the ovum that united with a sperm which grew into a child.^[1][2][3][4] Because of the complexity and differences of a mother's social, cultural, and religious definitions and roles, it is challenging to specify a universally acceptable definition for the term. The male equivalent is a father.

This is a definition that limits our view of ourselves. This is the ego-personality definition of a mother.

The word mother takes the meaning we give it. I will redefine it from the starting point of what is best for all life.

Redefining the word mother:

Mother - (Me as another) - one who has given birth to a child - perceiving oneself as separate from the child - and  through ones process of stopping the mind - is birthing self as life - sees the child as oneself - and assist the child as self to birth self  as life - using self-forgiveness and self-correction - and assist in establishing a world that truly honors life - to make sure all children born into this world is given equal access to the basic necessities it needs to survive - live in a world where there's equal power - so no one takes advantage of another - and equal rights - so all can live in dignity.

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I am doing self-forgiveness for separating myself to the word mother - and connecting other words to it - as i identify as the personality - defined by limitation - within my beliefs, judgments and ideas of what a mother is - which makes me see the word as more than or less than what it is. When i do this, i am not here. The personality is here. I am trapped as the personality connecting the word  to other words - based on my beliefs, judgments etc. where these mind components distort my definitions of words - and turns them into labels through which i can be controlled and which labels control me. 

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Self-forgiveness for Separation and connecting the word mother to other words - where i see it as more than or less than what it really is:

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the word mother.

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word father

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word daughter

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word son

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word family

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word money

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the phrase "being there no matter what".

i forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word comfort

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word selfless

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word children

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word absence

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word abuse

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word enslavement

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word love

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word abandonment

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the phrase "not there when i need her"

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word hate

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word noisy

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word self-interest

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word away

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word aloof

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word communication

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word life

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word death

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word pain

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word give

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word receive

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word leave

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word AR

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to the word AJ

I forgive myself that i have accepted and allowed myself to connect the word mother to June Roca