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Friday, April 12, 2013

Redefiniing The Word 'Sex' Day 272



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Redefining The Word SEX

From: Mind Definition:
S-elf participating in E-nergy e-X-periences directed by the mind
during physical interaction

To: A Definition I Can Live Equal To My Expression
S-elf EX-periencing the physical as breath during physical interaction with another as oneself

Redefinition:
 the physical movement where the body interacts with another body as itself, as the breath here, touching, moving etc. which usually includes sexual intercourse , enjoying its expression within who one is, what one is and how one is - as equal to all that exist,  taking self-responsibility for oneself - the other as oneself and standing for what is best for all life.

According to Merriam Webster Dictionary: Learner's:
Sex is
3 [noncount: physical activity in which people touch each other's bodies, kiss each other, etc. : physical activity that is related to and often includes sexual intercourse 

I am redefining the word sex as i have realized that this definition is a description of the physical interaction between people which does not include the starting point where both is coming from.

I can see that the starting point for having sex is usually desire for wholeness or completeness as one defined oneself as half whole or half complete without a relationship with another, which is fueled by fear - fear of losing ones personality, either the 'male personality', the 'female personality, the gay personality or the 'lesbian personality'. 

Sex or sexual intercourse is being used within self-interest where one does to another - perceived separate from oneself - what will give the other or oneself a positive energy experience, so one will get what one desires- directed by the mind

What is not realized is that the desire comes from a fear (either fear of loss/fear of being alone).
As one participates in the mind during sex, one experiences either a negative experience - where one does not get what one desires so is disappointed or sad in ones mind, a neutral experience as  a 'so-so' experience or a positive energy experience as one gets what one desires as pleasure/happiness in ones mind , an alternate reality, separate from what is here as this physical reality.

Physical interaction or sexual intercourse is being given a value more than what it really is and sometimes being given a value less than what it really is.  What it really is - as an expression of Life as the physical, is being missed.

Within one's definition of words, one sees oneself, another and this world. 
The desire to win and the fear of losing, can be seen clearly when we look at the values we give words which we connect to other words which we had given similar values missing the essence of it all. that the value of words = the value that is Life, that the value of All = Life.

It is to realize that the body/physical consist of cells that consist of atoms that consist substance which all consist of - therefore equals. One expresses oneself as that. Interacts with another physically from that starting point - seeing another as oneself, seeing another as an equal.


So, i am redefining sex as the physical movement where the body interacts with another body as itself, as the breath here, touching, moving etc. which usually includes sexual intercourse , enjoying its expression within who one is, what one is and how one is - as equal to all that exist,  taking self-responsibility for oneself - the other as oneself and standing for what is best for all life.



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